In the movies, shower sex is almost always depicted as being both sexy and easy. The reality, however, can be quite different. For example, it quickly becomes clear when you're in a standing position that body parts can't be lined up with the same ease as when you're horizontal. Then there's the irony of sex in the shower feeling dry, as well as the clear and present danger of losing your footing and one or both of you getting hurt. The good news is that, with a little forethought, shower sex can be as good as we all want it to be. Below are several tips that can help turn shower sex from tricky to tremendous, plus a few shower sex positions to help you get started.
The Mechanics of Shower Sex
Who doesn't get a little turned on when their partner joins them in the shower? The cascading water, the steam, the delicious aromas wafting through the air, and the spanking-clean, naked skin are total aphrodisiacs. But let's be real: Shower sex ain't easy to pull off. All the same things that make it so hot—the slipperiness, the crammed quarters—also make it logistically challenging. To get it on without slipping and sliding all over the place, try one of these 10 shower sex positions. How to do it: Lean back against the shower wall while your partner stands in front of you—then wrap one leg around their waist or ask them to hold the back of your knee in the crook of their elbow to make this move a little easier on you.
Setting the Scene
That said, shower sex has the potential to be the stuff of movies with the right moves. Hit the showers with these tips to master shower sex like a boss and come out on the other side with no broken bones or bruised egos. A showerhead can only cover so much ground, so turning up the heat beforehand will help. Reduce the friction and make anal or vaginal penetration easier with a silicone waterproof lube.
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